"That's you, mom, dad is, and the boss with the beta, too, are always together. And I have – I have no one! "Phrase from the fairy tales about Carlson and the Kid, who very much wanted to have a dog Some claim that the dog and child, especially the chest, incompatible, and cite as an example cases of diseases of animal origin. Others point out that growing up next to a fluffy family member is in favor of the formation of the child's personality: learn to care for loved ones instills a sense of decency and responsibility. Puppy! The unequivocal answer to the question of the compatibility of children and pets, and found, as the supporters enough for that and other points of view. Is there sense to argue, argue? Hardly.
But that's what really makes sense, since it is in the application of the maximum effort to ensure the harmonious life of the dog and child in the same area. Especially, that man was created in part diverse fauna – clearly, not in order to eventually completely isolated from it. First of all, we must understand that the dog in any way you plant not only a child, and including myself, and that if a child is small, most of the tasks and responsibilities for the care of a puppy will fall on your shoulders. So ask yourself, are you prepared yourself to have a pet at home, which requires a lot of attention, time to care and communication, as well as monetary costs, there are ready to that all members of your family. After all, the dog actually becomes its newest member.
If you are not ready to hold the animal, it is better not to have at all. Otherwise, when you realize that you have to part with it, it can be great tragedy. The role of animals in their lives, children are very realistic estimate.
Lapping each a friend on the move, according to well-known principle: "The main thing – to get involved in the fight, and there already … ' * Well, the woman in the family is interested, and that its strategy is clear. This is normal and good, if everything turned out. And if not? Most often, just on the 'path of the heart' family and we do not get: we too are very different, and the 'heart' we are different, how much tension and clashes in store for us this way! * Get ground through the hassle – probably too expensive. In addition, subject to rough grinding patterns: who is stronger, the lap and the other to her. Makes another 'for themselves'. 'The Way of the heart' – it's beautiful. But the heart of the fickle and inconstant as the wind, but also, unfortunately, often cruel and selfish.
* Not? Listen only what is said 'in the hearts' at home clashes! All from the heart – and into the heart of … And I think as a man and a psychologist, that this 'way of the heart' should be supplemented 'by reason', when to talk and negotiate, at As the main thing. It will not be living by the rules – it's just life with the rules. If the rules are reasonable, they make it easier to family life, and in difficult times and maintain. So let's get together to discuss some issues that are principle for relations between the spouses, who are laying the foundations of their family life.
The population if became impatient, starting to demand speed in its familiar relations, its religious life, the work, the form of if feeding, etc. (Source: Ali Partovi). The medias had started to determine the behavior of the people, therefore we know that the media finishes reflecting the values of its time. According to McDowell and Wakefield (1997), if to look at for the decade of 60, for example, the problem that the family faced was if the woman could or not work outside. Today what we see in the media in general is if the young must make sex in the first meeting or a little must wait more. The battles that the families face currently are not equal of the past, the immorality and the decay spiritual is taking account of the mind of the people. Moreira (1979) presented in the decade of 70 a statistics demonstrating that the modern problems already were intervening with the familiar balance.
Therefore we know that the basic point is in preserving the children of these problems and instructing them with Christian principles. But as to conciliate a professional life with intense hours of working and at the same time to place in practical the father function, since this is placed as the main foundation and supplier of the family, or even though the priest of the house in accordance with the Bible? The fact is that many for not obtaining to manage its paternity with effectiveness, finish failing. This in the sample that the lack of envolvement of the parents with the children finishes generating a number each bigger time of young that grows without no masculine reference or as in other cases they do not know to have limits for its action..
So, you decided that you are ready to have a child, and ponder the possible candidacy of the biological father. One of the most important issues that faces you: if you want to future pope was involved in the upbringing of the child (and in what extent) or its contribution limited to donations? Try to consider the pros and cons of each option. Let's say you decided to include the biological father of your child's life. The presence of the father is important for child – is no secret that the father-figure plays a major role in the formation of sex-role identity. And yet, even without scientific evidence is clear: to have an adequate father a child – it's important, healthy and pleasant.
Problems can also begin in the area of your relationship with your chosen parent. Of course, I want to biological dad unconditionally accepted your conditions: spent with a child is acceptable to you the amount of time, withstand your strategy of education, was in agreement with you on major issues, did not interfere with your home life, did not challenge the fundamental solutions for you and so on. But should be aware that since the entry into the joint parenting, and now you are the child's father – not strangers to each other people, and you have to do, communication, ability to negotiate, to compromise, to accept each other's flaws and ignore the needs of each party. Ali Partovi is full of insight into the issues. Do not expect that the father of the "fit" in your family system and will not affect it. Nor should we expect one hundred percent compliance with the original agreement – the human factor has not been canceled. With this important put up at an early stage and be prepared for difficulties. In the future there may well be unpleasant experiences, such as your zeal for the baby's father, competition with him for the love baby, mutual resentment over the way education and the nature of communication – do not be afraid, but you should be prepared to discuss it at all stages of co-parenting.
It's not just words, this is action, action! A few who are willing to commit real acts of our time, more and more empty talk. Just look to you for doing this is not the janitor caught local or building manager, and then have to wash everything, and the object of your love, so nothing do not know. I do not understand these janitors! It is better to let the fences will be inscribed with declarations of love than … you know what. Flowers You say, flowers – corny! Of course, the trite, if you're going to get rid of a bunch of stunted, God forbid If roses. If you give a rose, then too a million! A million, million, million red roses! I understand the money for such luxury is really that people from the list of billionaires Forbes, well, God bless them. Not even the fact that your lover prefers roses maybe she loves daisies! Or tulips! But they do not necessarily buy.
Lucky for those who live in Holland, because there is not uncommon to see whole tulip fields! If the tulip fields around there, look for another flower field in the neighborhood:) Imagine you, a girl and a sea of flowers. And while you say something romantic about this field of flowers that you give to her, that she is the most beautiful flower in which one can not fall in love. Everything! Your girl forever! The feat accomplished a feat, and to devote his girlfriend – that's where the romance! Yes, we do not live in the Middle Ages, but still every girl at heart still waits for her knight on a white horse, it is inherent in the genes:) You can save very young girl, and you can – all of humanity, but at least get a kitten from a tree.